Saturday, July 25, 2009
What I WISH my nuptials had been like
Now here are a bride and groom who are obviously SO delighted to be tying the knot, they can't make their feet behave.
Can I just say there is something about their unbridled joy that makes me jealous?
When I married Jeff at the ripe old age of 28, I was keenly aware of the standards of propriety to which I was expected to conform. I smiled at the right times, made certain that "The Kiss" wasn't, umm, passionate enough to raise any eyebrows and that my new husband didn't raise my skirt TOO high when he removed my garter at the end of the reception. I was a Southern lady through and through.
I'm not sure what's happened over the past 14 years, but I'm not THAT girl any more. I dare say if I'd known then what I know now ~ how rich married life can be, how delicious and satisfying the experience of sharing many years together, the rapturous thrill of gazing upon the face of a newborn that we created together ~ I'd have been dancing all the way to the altar and back.
Somehow, I don't think I could have ever gotten my groom to somersault in a tux, though.